"We live by encouragement and die without it - slowly, sadly, angrily." Celeste Holm
The one person that I have the most trouble encouraging on a regular basis is me, myself and I. Each morning I find myself standing right in front of the mirror and still manage to walk away without saying a word. Can you believe that? I'm starting to take it personally. I have no problem encouraging those around me, but it's truly a challenge to whip up a dose of encouragement for myself. Is any of this sounding familiar? Here is a short list of simple ways to encourage yourself.
- Focus on your strengths.
- Resist comparing yourself to others.
- Keep your sense of humor.
- Enjoy your accomplishments.
- Try to see things in perspective.
- Focus on the progress you have made.
- Avoid negative self-talk like; "I can't get it done" or "It's impossible" or "I suck".
If you're a high energy doer like myself, chances are that you are in need of some long overdue words of encouragement. Who is better qualified to deliver that message than yourself? You can do it! I have confidence in you. I encourage you to risk it. These days I'm learning to do it for myself, I'm learning a brand new way and it's good.
"I may not have reached my goal yet, but I'm encouraged by how far I've come." Ray Basile
Nice socks birthday boy!!!!HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!
Love,
Julie
Posted by: julie leary | May 17, 2007 at 06:25 AM
Is it your birthday today (by reading Julie's comment)? Happy b-day! Mine is tomorrow.
What a beautiful piece of writing. My husband keeps telling me to be positive. I think I have lots of work to do in this area... Thx! :)
Posted by: Windy | May 17, 2007 at 07:13 AM
Yes indeed! It's my Birthday, it's my Birthday! Thanks for thinking of me Julie. Thank you too Windy for the wish.
Posted by: Mr. Besilly | May 17, 2007 at 08:13 AM
[Claps]
Very well said, Ray!
Happy Birthday!
Posted by: Sindy | May 17, 2007 at 08:42 PM
I missed the big day. Happy birthday! Now post the gong show footage!
Posted by: katrina | May 18, 2007 at 07:24 AM
This piece really spoke to my heart. I not only have a hard time encouraging myself, but I tend to discourage myself as well.
Such strange behavior from a woman who thrives in giving encouragement to others!
Thank YOU for writing this Ray.
Posted by: Polliwog | May 29, 2007 at 04:28 PM